I just love being baby G’s mommy more and more every day. He is such a blessing to us and he just amazes us sometimes. There really are times when DH and I are speechless, and look at each other and wonder how we got such an amazing baby. Usually in those times all we can do is thank and praise God, for His wonderful and prefect creation that is our baby boy.
Measurements on 26/10/2012:
Weight: 8.76 kg
Height: 74.5 cm
Head Circumference: 46.5 cm
Milestones: Last month baby G could not yet wave or clap his hands, but I must say he’s mastered it now. He loves to wave and say “tatta”, but sometimes he is shy, especially towards strangers. He has also made a connection with me taking my handbag and getting the keys as then he loves to say “tatta” and wave, even if it’s just to the dogs or no one in particular. He is also shy about clapping his hands, DH has only seen him start to clap his hands as the moment he notices DH looking he stops. I say a rhyme every time we clap hands and I notices he sings to himself when he claps his hands, which is too cute!
Baby G is also getting some separation anxiety as he gets quite upset if I should leave a room without him. So it’s been quite tiring for me, as he wants to be in my arms a lot lately and I have to constantly remind myself to go pick him up even if I just want to fetch something from another room and I know I will be back within seconds. With this separation anxiety comes stranger anxiety too, as he now does not like it much when someone else tries to pick him up or take him from my arms. He clings so hard to my upper arms that he’s bruised me so that some people have commented on the black and blue marks.
He climbs onto or into everything and getting on or off the couch is no problem anymore. He’s learned to swing his legs over the edge and slide on his tummy down until his feet touch the ground and then he is off! He climbs like that off the bed too, but the bed is still too high for him to climb up onto it. We have to be more vigilant now than ever, because this baby is not scared of anything! Just look at these pictures:
Baby G might have been an early crawler, but it does not look like he will be an early walker and that is totally fine with me. He can stand for a few seconds on his own, but not long and he doesn’t do it too often, so his balance is not too good. He is also very unstable behind his walking toy and often he drops down to his knees and walks on his knees behind the walking toy, or if he does walk it is with stiff legs – it doesn’t look like he is bending his knees.
Sleeping: Baby G is gradually sleeping better as he gets older. I think I mentioned earlier this month that he slept through one night and almost through the two nights following. Unfortunately he hasn’t repeated that again, but it feels like the bad nights are getting fewer and fewer. He usually takes 2 daytime naps, one in the morning about 3 hours after he first woke up (that differs from 5h00 to 7h30, but most days he wakes up around 6h30), and an afternoon nap that he takes anytime from 14h00 to 16h00 and then he also had a few days that he just skiped this nap, and refused to nap no matter how hard I try.
Eating: Baby G just refused to eat any solids for almost 2 weeks this month and had me in a state about that. I think it had to do with the cutting of his second tooth, because it started about a week before and ended about a week after he cut that tooth. Since then he eats well again, 3 meals of solids during the day with snacks sometimes too, and he’s also drinking more and more formula now, but mostly when DH gives it to him. I’ve been pushing the formula a bit the last couple of days because my left nipple is so sore! Somehow he doesn’t latch too well at times when he is on that boob, and he also tends to bite that nipple more. His favourite food this month is Spaghetti Bolognaise, he loves to suck up the whole pieces of spaghetti, and it’s also a favourite because he can feed himself!
Teeth: The third tooth cut through a few days ago, at the top. I can’t see it yet, but I can feel it. So Baby G got his first tooth about a week after he turned 8 months, the second tooth about a week after he turned 9 months and now the third a day before he turned 10 months and I’m sure tooth number 4 is coming soon too, because I can see its outline underneath his gums already. Something that is very weird to me is that each tooth is different – baby G has different symptoms and some teeth bother more than others.
Words: I mentioned earlier that baby G amazes us sometimes, well its most often when he speaks. Sometimes I hesitate to talk about it, because I wonder if people will think that I’m lying. I certainly would have thought it was a lie if someone else told me this: Baby G is talking in short sentences. He is saying things like; “Ek wil tietie hê, ek wil mamma hê,” (I want boobie, I want mommy) and yesterday he said, “kyk die vissies” (look at the little fish) while pointing his little index finger at the fish tank. He also said hello for the first time this month and he is also copying words we say, like I was talking about the mosquito net over our bed and he clearly said “net” after I said it and this morning DH spoke to him while baby G was playing with DH’s shoes in his cupboard, and he repeated the word “kas” (cupboard) after DH.
Favourite toys: Well, toys are not a favourite at the moment with baby G. I think he is bored with most of his toys by now, but the absolute favourite thing for him to play with is water. He plays with the water in the dog’s water bowl, he plays with the water drops on the inside of the dishwasher door if its open and he loves to play outside the shower while DH is taking a shower, because some water leaks through the door onto the tiled step. O, if he gets a chance he will try to play with the water in the toilet bowl too, but we try to keep the doors to the toilets closed, for that very reason!
Baby G also initiates games of peek-a-boo these days. He will sometimes put a blanket or any kind of fabric over his head for different periods of time and then pull it off and start to laugh. Sometimes he will pull it off quickly and other times he will keep it over his head for a while, just like we do. It so cute when he does that!
Likes/dislikes: Nappy changing and dressing/undressing is a nightmare! Baby G does not want to lie on his back and the moment I put him on his back he swings his one leg over and rolls onto his tummy and tries to crawl away. So I don’t even contemplate changing him on his dresser anymore, but I do it most often on the floor or the couch now, because I’m too scared of him falling, as I cannot hold him still anymore. I’ve learnt to put a nappy on while he sits and I also dress him while holding him upright and most of the time he breaks loose and crawls away from me a couple of times before I’ve finished dressing him.